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31 Days of Chasing THE Light Day 4 {Day 276}




Comparing Light

“For jealousy and selfishness are not God’s kind of wisdom. Such things are earthly, unspiritual, and demonic.  For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.”
~James 3:15-16

Ever fall into the jealousy and comparison trap? Yeah, me too; however, this verse sort of freaks me out.  I certainly do not want to do anything “demonic” or find myself in disorder and evil of any kind.  But, we can find ourselves there and spiral down into a pit of hate if we allow it to continue. Basically, when we do this, we are saying to God that the gifts you have given to me are just not good enough. 

To quote my teacher and founder of Holy Yoga, Brooke Boon: “To compare myself with others is to intentionally look Christ in the face and say, ‘you are not enough’ what you have for me and that your Word promises, is not enough. It’s to say that the temporal fix from believing that I am ‘better than her’ or ‘it’s all her fault’ is more secure than the act of Christ on the cross.” WOW…that will make you rethink your behavior.

Instead of trying to measure up or get a bigger platform…I need to lean into Him. I need to work on my own heart and focus on the ministry right in front of my eyes. God has us placed exactly where we are for a reason. Let’s lead right where we are and focus on those within our circle.

“Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands.” 1 Thess 4:11

We each have our own gifts…it’s our choice to use them for God’s glory or not. We are not here to make a name for ourselves…we are here to make Jesus’ name known.

Comparing lights with others only brings unwanted feelings.  The only light we should ever compare ourselves to is Jesus’.  He is the only one we should strive to be like.

“Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.” ~Galatians 6:4-5

Focus: You have a seat at the table – tune out the other voices and listen to the One voice that matters. You are a daughter of the King. Put on the armor of Light! See the people right in front of you. Make a difference in their lives. Build small, love, and serve your real life people. 

Zoom in (journal): Do you seek attention from everyone other than God? Do you wish for what others have? What steals your joy? What gifts do you have that you can use for His glory? Journal your thoughts.

Capture: Did you notice when you started to compare yourself to others today? Did you stop it in its tracks? This is a daily battle – fight for your faith!




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